How it works

How does sugar dating work?

Sugar dating is dating with your cards on the table: a Gentleman and a Member who meet on the basis of honesty, ambition and generosity, and who are clear from the start about what they're looking for. At Seek For Sugar you do that safely and discreetly, among profiles our team reviews by hand.

In three steps

From sign-up to introduction

I

Sign up free

Create a profile and say who you are and what you're looking for. Our team reviews your profile and photos by hand, usually within a day.
II

Browse and choose

Once reviewed, you can browse profiles. With a membership you see every photo and profile text, and you can send messages.
III

Meet on your terms

Chat privately, get to know each other at your own pace and agree together on what you're both looking for.

Two roles

Gentleman and Member

As a Gentleman

You've built something and know what you're looking for. You value ambition, you're generous and honest about your expectations, and you take the time to really get to know someone.

As a Member

You're ambitious and know what you want. You're looking for someone who values your time and ambition, with whom you openly discuss what you're both looking for, on your terms.

What you can expect of each other

Honesty

You're clear about who you are and what you're looking for, in your profile and in your intentions.

Mutual respect

An introduction is between equals. Nobody owes anyone anything, and no means no.

Adults only

Seek For Sugar is only for people aged 18 or over. Our team reviews every profile and every photo by hand before anyone becomes visible.

Discretion

Profiles are never public and never findable in Google. What you share, you share only with members.

Membership

What's free, and what takes a membership?

Free

  • Signing up and creating your profile
  • Browsing profiles, once our team has reviewed yours
  • Seeing other members' profile photos

With a membership

  • Every other photo and members' profile texts
  • Sending and receiving messages
  • Favorites, friend requests and vault requests
  • The Gold label on your profile

You pay for a membership once: no subscription and no automatic renewal. You'll see which memberships are available once you've signed up for free and logged in.

Good to know

Frequently asked questions about sugar dating

What is the difference between a sugar daddy and a sugar baby?

At Seek For Sugar a sugar daddy is called a Gentleman: someone who has built something and has generosity to offer. A sugar baby is called a Member: someone with ambition who is looking for an introduction on their own terms.

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Is sugar dating legal in the Netherlands and Belgium?

Yes. Sugar dating is dating between adults who are honest from the start about what they are looking for, and that is permitted in the Netherlands and Belgium. At Seek For Sugar every member is 18+ and our team reviews every profile by hand.

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Is sugar dating about paid meetings?

No. Sugar dating is dating: two adults get to know each other, with respect and honesty about what they are both looking for. At Seek For Sugar a meeting is never something you buy.

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The good life begins with an introduction.

Signing up is free. Our team usually reviews your profile within a day.

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