Etiquette
Etiquette for the Member: stay in control
As a Member you set your own pace and boundaries. How to come across confidently, stay in control and recognise a Gentleman who suits you.
Magazine
Magazine: tips and insights on sugar dating
On sugar dating, generosity and the good life — discreetly written, for those who expect more of it.
Etiquette
Etiquette for the Gentleman: 7 things that impress
Generosity is more than giving. Seven habits that help a Gentleman earn trust: from being on time to discretion and genuine attention.
Gidsen
From first message to first introduction
What do you write in your first message, when do you suggest meeting and where? A step-by-step plan for a relaxed first introduction.
Etiquette
Discussing expectations without awkwardness
Open cards are the heart of sugar dating, but how do you start that conversation? How to discuss wishes and boundaries kindly, clearly and in good time.
Sugar Dating 101
Dating discreetly when your reputation matters
Do you have a role where your reputation matters? How to protect your privacy in sugar dating, from display name and photo vault to where you first meet.
Sugar Dating 101
A sugar dating profile that works: how to write it
A good profile is personal without revealing too much. How to write a text that attracts the right people, with examples for both sides.
Steden
Amsterdam in focus: introductions from the canals to the Zuidas
Where do you meet in Amsterdam for a first introduction, when is the city at its finest and how do you keep it discreet? A guide by atmosphere, not by address.
Van Seek For Sugar
How we review every profile by hand
At Seek For Sugar no profile becomes visible until our team has checked it. Why we do it, what we look for and what you notice of it.
Sugar Dating 101
Safe sugar dating: 10 agreements with yourself
Ten simple agreements you make with yourself, from your first message to your first introduction. That way sugar dating stays safe and relaxed.
Sugar Dating 101
What is sugar dating? An honest explanation
Sugar dating is dating with your cards on the table. Read what it is, what it is not, who it suits and how to start safely and discreetly.
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